Litzkow, Arnita

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• Reference Number: 9635
• Obituary: 21 Nov 2014; APC

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Arnita Foelker, beloved wife, mother, grandmother and friend entered eternal life the evening of Tuesday November 18, 2014 at the age of 93.
Arnita was born to Albert and Meta (nee Wehrman) Litzkow on September 18, 1921 in Cicero, Wisconsin. After completing her education, she began work as a nanny, housekeeper and cook for a local family. At the age of 16, Arnita took a position as a waitress at the Ford-Hopkins Pharmacy lunch counter.
A short time later, Arnita began work at the Super Ice Cream Shop in Menasha. It was here one spring afternoon that she met the man who would become her lifelong love. Bill Foelker spotted Arnita as she was leaving the shop and found himself instantly smitten. Upon seeing her for the first time, Bill remarked to a friend "I'm going to marry that girl." As fate would have it, truer words were never spoken. After courtship and an engagement, Bill and Arnita were joined in holy matrimony on March 9, 1940 in Dubuque, Iowa, and later were blessed with the arrival of three beautiful, healthy children and a lifetime of love, laughter and unwavering commitment to one another. Shortly before Bill's passing in 2010, the pair celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary together, surrounded by loved ones and well-wishers.
Though Arnita dedicated the vast majority of her married life to the care of her husband, children and eventually, her grandchildren, she enjoyed the opportunity to work outside the home, most notably at George's Steakhouse. There, she earned the respect of her colleagues and the affection of her customers. In her later years, she spoke fondly of her time in service at the restaurant, often using her tenure there to remind those listening of the value of work, and the importance of doing one's best in all things.
A devout woman throughout her life, Arnita enjoyed an active and personal relationship with her church and her Lord; she did well in imparting the importance of this faith to her children. When confronted with loss or struggle, Arnita always sought and found comfort in Jesus Christ and the Blessed Virgin.
Arnita enjoyed the opportunity to travel, seeing the country and the world with her beloved husband. The two of them treasured these experiences and the memories they made together as they saw the sights, dined and danced with friends and loved ones. When at home, they sought always to spend their time with those who mattered most; their children and grandchildren. They devoted a lifetime to cultivating and nurturing unique and special relationships with each of them. As "Mom" and "Grandma", Arnita was always at the ready with a hug or a kiss, was quick to dry a tear or to say, "I love you" when one needed to hear it most. Her generosity in all things, her joie d' vivre and her fierce dedication to those close to her make the void that comes with her passing impossible to fill.
Arnita was preceded in death by her husband Bill, her parents Albert and Meta, and siblings Marvin, Lydia (Henry) Pingel, May (Richard) Mitchell, Erma (Thomas) Jaje and Berwyn (Linden) Stroess. She is survived by her sister Elda (Donald) Pscheidt and several nieces and nephews. Arnita's legacy is further carried by her children; son Richard (Menasha), daughters Barbara Hohman (Appleton) and Sheila (John) Jabas (DeSoto, Texas). In addition to her children, Arnita's spirit lives on in her beloved grandchildren and great-grandchildren; granddaughter Susan (Mark) Heinlein (nee Hohman; Eagan, MN) and their sons Brett and Drew, grandson Matthew Hohman (Appleton) and his son Alex, grandson Theodore ("Ted") Hohman (Edina, MN); grandson Dean Jabas (Irving, TX) and his daughter Lily Bushland and grandson Willard ("Bill", Kristen) Jabas (Appleton). Many friends hold Arnita's memory with them as well.
To celebrate Arnita's life, a funeral liturgy will be conducted at in her memory at 10:30 AM on Saturday the 22nd of November at Star of Hope Chapel located within Highland Memorial Park (3131 N. Richmond St., Appleton). Friends and family will be welcomed at a pre-service visitation beginning at 9.30 am.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks those inclined to contribute to Saint Joseph Parish, of which Arnita was a long time member. Its purpose and mission do honor to her devotion to her Lord and faith.
"Nita",
Your loss leaves us heavy with grief. Your gentle touch, generosity and profound influence in our daily lives will be missed each and every day. As we remember you with love, we promise always to live well, to laugh and now and then, to dance... just as you did. You will be with us forever...
Your Loving Family

Arnita married Foelker, Willard "Bill" 9 Mar 1940, Dubuque, Dubuque, Iowa, USA. Willard was born 14 May 1915, Hatley, Marathon, Wisconsin, USA; died 28 Nov 2010, Appleton, Outagamie, Wisconsin, USA; was buried , Highland Memorial Park Cemetery, Appleton, Wisconsin, USA. [Group Sheet]

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• Reference Number: 9635
• Obituary: 23 Nov 2014; Appleton Post Crescent

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Richard ("Dick") Foelker, beloved son, brother, uncle and friend entered eternal life the morning of Friday November 21, 2014 at the age of 74.
Richard was born to Willard ("Bill") and Arnita Foelker on October 16, 1940 in Appleton, Wisconsin. Their only son, Dick was the first of three children born to the couple. He was much loved by his parents, but most especially by his dear mother. The two were devoted to one another all of their lives.
After completing his education at Appleton High School in 1959, he entered the Armed Forces through enlistment in the National Guard. Following his military service, Dick pursued his post-secondary education, first at the University of Wisconsin Extension in Menasha, and ultimately transferred to the University of Wisconsin - Green Bay. He graduated Cum Laude.
Dick elected to enter the family business, working closely with his father Bill at Combined Insurance. At the conclusion of his tenure with Combined, he elected to assume a position as an Instructor of Economics at St. Norbert's College.
Blessed with a sharp mind, Dick opted to pursue his interest in the law, enrolling in the Juris Doctorate program at Gonzaga University in Spokane, Washington. After a brief hiatus, he continued his studies at William Mitchell College of Law in St. Paul, Minnesota. He made use of his education as a Paralegal at a law firm in Sturgeon Bay, Wisconsin.
Dick was an avid sports fan, and was an enthusiastic supporter of his favorite teams, the Green Bay Packers and the Milwaukee Brewers. In addition, he was an excellent chess player, a pastime in which he earned the honor of State Chess Champion in 1967. He was a collector of baseball cards, 50's and 60's music and classic comic books.
An animal lover throughout his life, he developed a special relationship with the family's beloved beagle Sherman, and later, their mixed-breed dog Jack.
Dick was preceded in death by his father Bill in 2010, and by his beloved mother Arnita in November of 2014. Forever bonded, they passed within days of one another. He is survived by his sisters Barbara Hohman (Appleton) and Sheila (John) Jabas (DeSoto, Texas). In addition, Dick is further survived by niece Susan (Mark) Heinlein (nee Hohman; Eagan, MN) and their sons Brett and Drew, nephew Matthew Hohman (Appleton) and his son Alex, nephew Theodore ("Ted") Hohman (Edina, MN); nephew Dean Jabas (Irving, TX) and his daughter Lily Bushland, and nephew Willard ("Bill", Kristen) Jabas (Appleton).
To honor Dick's memory, a visitation and funeral liturgy was held in conjunction with his mother's. Both were honored at the service and laid to rest together.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks those inclined to contribute to The Fox Valley Humane Association. Its purpose and mission do honor to his love of all God's creatures.

Barbara married Hohman, Jon [Group Sheet]

Shiela — Jabas, John. [Group Sheet]